Turning 30


Turning 30 is an event that a lot of women fear. Today, Erin Kennedy of mythirtyspot.com features a piece I wrote about what turning 30 means to me. You can check it out here: http://www.mythirtyspot.com/search/label/project

 I would also like to take this opportunity to welcome visitors from Erin's site to my blog. As you can see this is a brand new project of mine that I am just getting off the ground. If you want to stay connected please subscribe so you will get email notification of future posts.

Photo credit: Birthday cake by Will Clayton on Flickr.

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